Charm
is a woman's strength, while strength is a man's charm.
Our
job is not to see through one another, but to see one another through.
One
of the most difficult thing to give away is kindness. It is usually returned.
When
we are hurt, there is no sweeter revenge than to forgive.
Those
at war with others are seldom at peace with themselves.
For
every minute you are angry, you lose 60 seconds of happiness.
The
best mirror is an old friend.
As
we advance in life, we learn the limits of our abilities.
Positive
anything is better than negative nothing.
Chances
makes our parents. Choices make our friends.Because life is short it's
wise to make it broad.
No
matter how thin you slice it there are always two sides.
Modern
paintings are like women; you will never enjoy them if you try to understand
them.
To
handle yourself, use your head;
To handle
others, use your heart.
Anger
is only one letter short of danger.
If
someone betrays you once, it's his fault;
If he
betrays you twice, it's your fault.
Great
minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events;Small minds discuss people.
God
gives every bird it's food, But he does not throw it into its nest.
He
who loses money, loses much; He who loses a friend, loses more; He who
loses faith, loses all.
Beautiful
young people are accidents of nature, But beautiful old people are works
of art.
Learn
from the mistakes of others.
You can't
live long enough to make them all yourself.
The
tongue weighs practically nothing, But so few people can hold it.
Having
once decided to achieve a certain task, achieve it at all costs of tedium
and distaste. The gain in self confidence of having accomplished a tiresome
labor is immense.
Thomas
A. Bennett
BE THANKFUL
Be thankful
that you don't already have everything you desire.
If you
did, what would there be to look forward to?
Be thankful
when you don't know something.
For it
gives you the opportunity to learn.
Be thankful
for the difficult times.
During
those times you grow.
Be thankful
for your limitations.
Because
they give you opportunities for improvement.
Be thankful
for each new challenge.
Because
it will build your strength and character.
Be thankful
for your mistakes.
They will
teach you valuable lessons.
Be thankful
when you're tired and weary.
Because
it means you've made a difference.
It is
easy to be thankful for the good things.
A life
of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the set backs.
GRATITUDE
can turn a negative into a positive. Find a way to be thankful for
your troubles and they can become your blessings.
Something
to take to heart....
Ten Golden
rules For LOVE
Never
both be angry at the same time.
Never
yell at each other unless the house in on fire.
If
one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
If
you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
Never
bring up mistakes of the past.
Neglect
the whole world rather than each other.
Never
go away with an argument unsettled.
At
least once everyday try to say one kind or complimentary thing toeach other.
When
you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
"***
It takes TWO to make a quarrel, and the one in the WRONG is the one who
does the MOST talking ***"
I've
learned
that you
cannot make someone love you.
All you
can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I've
learned
that no
matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.
I've
learned
that it
takes years to build up trust, and only
seconds
to destroy it.
I've
learned
that it's
not what you have in your life
but who
you have in your life that counts.
I've
learned
that you
shouldn't compare yourself to the best others can do but to the best you
can do.
I've
learned
that it's
not what happens to people that's important. It's what they do about it.
I've
learned
that no
matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides.
I've
learned
that it's
taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've
learned
that it's
a lot easier to react than it is to think.
I've
learned
that you
should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time
you see them.
I've
learned
that you
can keep going long after you think you can't.
I've
learned
that we
are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I've
learned
that either
you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've
learned
that regardless
of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and
there had better be something else to takeitsplace.
I've
learned
that heroes
are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless
of the consequences.
I've
learned
that learning
to forgive takes practice.
I've
learned
that there
are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.
I've
learned
that money
is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've
learned
that my
best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've
learned
that sometimes
the people you expect to kick you when you're downwill be the ones to help
you get back up.
I've
learned
that sometimes
when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the
right to be cruel.
I've
learned
that true
friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same
goes for true love.
I've
learned
that just
because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean
they don't love you with all they have.
I've
learned
that maturity
has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've
learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I've
learned
that no
matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a
while and you must forgive them for that.
I've
learned
that it
isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn
to forgive yourself.
I've
learned
that no
matter how bad your heart is broken
the world
doesn't stop for your grief.
I've
learned
that our
background and circumstances may have influenced who weare, but we are
responsible for who we become.
I've
learned
that sometimes
when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want
to.
I've
learned
that just
because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other
And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do.
I've
learned
that we
don't have to change friends if we understand that friendschange.
I've
learned
that you
shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I've
learned
that two
people can look at the exact same thing
and see
something totally different.
I've
learned
that no
matter how you try to protect
your children,
they will eventually get hurt
and you
will hurt in the process.
I've
learned
that there
are many ways of falling and staying in love.
I've
learned
that no
matter the consequences, those who are honest with themselves get farther
in life.
I've
learned
that no
matter how many friends you have,
if you
are their pillar you will feel lonely
and lost
at the times you need them most.
I've
learned
that your
life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even
know you.
I've
learned
that even
when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.
I've
learned
that writing,
as well as talking, can ease emotional pains.
I've
learned
that credentials
on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I've
learned
that although
the word "love" can have many different meanings, it loses value
when overly used.
I've
learned
that it's
hard to determine where to draw the line
between
being nice and not hurting people's feelings and standing up for what you
believe.
I've
learned
to appreciate
and pass on a good message.
I've
learned
That peace
of mind is very precious
Conclusion
is: LIFE is a LEARNING PROCESS
Thoughts
THE GIFT
OF LISTENING
But you
must REALLY listen.
No interrupting,
no day dreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.
THE GIFT
OF AFFECTION
Be generous
with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds.
Let these
small actions demonstrate the love you
have for
family and friends.
THE GIFT
OF LAUGHTER
Clip cartoons.
Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh
with you".
THE GIFT
OF A WRITTEN NOTE
It can
be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten
note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even
change
a life.
THE GIFT
OF A COMPLIMENT
A simple
and sincere,
"You look
great in red," "You did a super job," or "That was a wonderful meal" can
make someone's day.
THE GIFT
OF A FAVOR
Every
day, go out of your way to do something kind.
THE GIFT
OF SOLITUDE
There
are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive
to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.
THE GIFT
OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION
The easiest
way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone.
Author
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Those who
take care of their relationships build whole and happy lives.
Be thankful
for the troubles of your job.
They provide
about half your income.
Because
if it were not for the things that go wrong,the difficult people you have
to deal with, and the problems and unpleasantness of your working
day someone could be found to handle your job for half of what you are
being paid.
It takes
intelligence, resourcefulness, patience, tact and courage to meet the troubles
of any
job.
That is
why you hold you present job. And it may be the reason you aren't
holding down an even better one.
If all
of us would start to look for more troubles, and learn to handle them cheerfully
and with good judgment, as opportunities rather than irritations, we would
find ourselves getting ahead at a surprising rate.
For it
is a fact that there are plenty of big/good jobs waiting for men and
women who aren't afraid of the troubles connected with them.
A diamond
is a piece of coal that stuck to its job.
Failure
isn't so bad if it doesn't attack the heart. Success is right if
it doesn't go to the head.
I make
progress by having people around me who are smarter than I am and listening
to them.
Four steps
to achievement :
plan purposely,
prepare prayerfully,
proceed positively,
pursue persistently.
You may
have to fight a battle more than once to win it.
The secret
of success :
It is
to be like a duck
smooth
and unruffled on the top,
but paddling
furiously underneath.
Interesting
article on Time
Imagine
there is a bank that credits your account each morning with $86,400.
It carries
over no balance from day to day.
Every
evening deletes whatever part of the balance you failed to use during the
day.
What would
you do? Draw out every cent, of course!
Each of
us has such a bank. Its name is TIME. Every morning, it credits you
with 86,400 seconds.
Every
night it writes off, as lost,
whatever
of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance.
It allows no overdraft. Each day it opens a new account for
you. Each night it burns the remains of the day.
If youfail
to use the day's deposits, the loss is yours. There is no going back. There
is no drawing against the "tomorrow".
You must
live in the present on today's deposits. Invest it so as to get from
it the utmost in health, happiness and success!
The clock
is running.
Make the
most of today.
To realize
the value of ONE YEAR, ask a student who failed a grade.
To realize
the value of ONE MONTH, ask a mother who gave birth to a premature baby.
To realize
the value of ONE WEEK, ask the editor of a weekly newspaper.
To realize
the value of ONE DAY, ask a daily wage laborer with kids to feed.
To realize
the value of ONE HOUR, ask the lovers who are waiting to meet.
To realize
the value of ONE MINUTE, ask a person who missed the train.
To realize
the value of ONE SECOND, ask a person who just won a silver medal in the
Olympics.
Treasure
every moment that you have! And treasure it more because you shared it
with someone special, special enough to spend your time.
And remember
that time waits for no one.
Yesterday
is history
Tomorrow
is a mystery
Today
is a gift
That's
why it's called the present!
Branches
of Trees in Germany
The branches
of the trees lining a path distributed in the shape of declaration of the
Islamic creed in the Arabic language that affirms the Oneness of Allah
and the Prophethood of Muhammad (PBUH)."
It reads
'La ilaha
Illahau Muhammad-ur-Rasulullah'
There
is no deity but Allah and Muhammad (p.b.u.h.) is the Messenger ofAllah.
Many Germans
converted upon seeing this miraculous sight. The German government put
barriers that part of the farm to prevent people from visiting.
This discovery
is no surprise.
Allah
has revealed in the Holy Qur'an:
"Their
intention is to extinguish Allah's light (by blowing) with their mouths.
But Allah will complete His Light, eventhough the Unbelievers may detest
(it).
Al Qur'an 61:8
